Friday, November 27, 2009

Mature

I didn’t know quite much know what is mature, when I think that I am almost reach 30s and I should be mature, from other people point of view, but actually I didn’t quite much understand that words, what we call is mature.

This morning I chatted with one friend, she told me that she was kind of confused about love and didn’t know how to move on for her life. Her problem is that she doesn’t want to hurt others, as at this moment some guys are like her at the same time.

One guy is the manager of the furniture factory; he was failure in his business at before, so he borrowed 8W from other person that need to return the money back to them. Base on that loan, it is impossible for her to have her dream come true as she wants to buy a house and get marry next year. But at before she was kind of upset and confused about love, only after two months of they came to know each other, she said to him:” Do you love me? If yes we will get marry immediately. “ He is kind of scare by her request, so he refused but very soon he knew that she is a good girl and agreed, but she immediately regret what she said.

However, she liked another guy and that guy like her too, she also think that he is a good boy for marriage, so she chose him, however another problem happened too. Another guy told her that he liked her too. She told me he called her at 3am this morning and told her he missed her very much, as she is kind-hearted, she doesn’t want to hurt them, even she likes only the second guy.

I think mature people know how to handle the situation like this skillfully, but as a girl to handle that situation, that is very hard.
What is mature anyway? Is that mature people can make decision easily than the immature one?

At what situation will a guy call a girl at a very deep night?