I will never forget how lost I felt the summer after my graduation from college, and in the nine years since, I've spoken to countless 20-somethings who feel incredibly pressured to find their true calling immediately and build a successful career in a particular field before their 25th birthdays。

　　我永远都不会忘记自己在大学毕业的那个夏天是多么得失落。在接下来的九年里，我和无数二十来岁的年轻人探讨过压力巨大的问题。这些年轻人想要立即找到自己的“天职”，并在25岁之前在某个领域干出一番事业。

　　A more realistic challenge is to ease yourself slowly into the work world by following a few strategies that many people don't try until they're well into their 30s. School probably taught you a lot of things, but the business world's unique set of rules may not have been part of the story。

　　一个更为现实的做法是遵循一些策略来让自己平缓地步入职场，可许多人直到三十岁后才开始去尝试这些策略。学校也许教会了你许多东西，但却可能没教你职场这套独一无二的法则。

　　Hopefully these tips will get you started on the right foot:

　　希望下面这些建议能让你的职业生涯有一个好的开始：

　　Pick a Career Instead of a Job 是“择业”而不是选择“工作”

　　Looking for a job haphazardly, because you majored in something or because you saw a listing that looks somewhat interesting, you'll risk getting started in a career that holds no real appeal for you, and then you'll have to leave it to find something else. Why not plan your career strategically, just like you planned your education?

　　随意找一份工作，只不过因为它与你的专业相关或感到工作内容有趣，那么你可能会进入一个对你来说并没有真正吸引力的行业，不用多久你就得再去找工作。何不用战略的眼光来规划你的职业，就像曾规划你的学业一样？

　　Start by doing a self-assessment that teaches you things about yourself that you might never have thought about--for example, what you like and don't like in a work environment, what defines success for you, and what type of work would make you want to sit in traffic for hours just for the privilege of showing up. Knowing these things can help you determine which occupations could be a good fit for you。

　　你可以先做个自我评估，这会让你了解许多自己不曾注意到的事情——例如，你喜欢或者讨厌怎样的工作环境；你认为怎样才算是成功；什么样的工作会让你宁愿忍受几小时的交通堵塞、而仅仅为了出现在办公室？了解这些能帮你决定哪些才是真正适合自己的职业。

　　If You Can't Get a Job Right Away, Don't Despair 即使不能立刻找到工作，也不要绝望

　　If you start thinking of yourself as a victim or allow yourself to lapse into prolonged negativity, you won't be hurting anyone except yourself. The best strategy for moving on is to recognize the reality of the situation, acknowledge your feelings and find a way to cope productively. Reach out to your support systems, and consider taking some time off--after all, you'll never have the freedom of being between school and work again!

　　如果你一开始就把自己看成“受害者”，或是纵容自己长期消极，那么受伤的只会是你自己。最好的办法是承认现实、认清自我感受，找一个富有成效的方法去解决问题。向支持你的人寻求帮助，考虑休息一段时间——毕竟，将来你不会再有这种不用上学也不用工作的自由了！

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