有没有吸引力并不取决于你赚多少钱，也不取决于你的老爸是谁。而且，这完全不取决于你是否长得像汤姆·克鲁斯或者他的妻子凯蒂·赫尔姆斯。这仅仅取决于一些简单的细节，像汤姆·克鲁斯一样的人也不一定能办到。而来自任何种族，任何国家，任何背景的人，都能成为世界上最有吸引力的人。

　　It's not about howmuch money you make, and it's not about who your daddy is. And no, it'sdefinitely not about whether you look like Tom Cruise or his wife KatieHolmes ... What it is about is these simple things, things that maybeeven a person like Tom Cruise does not have.

　　And note, we are notnecessarily talking about sexual (male attract female) things here.We're talking about being attractive in general, whether it's on a jobinterview or just gaining the respect of your colleagues . . .

　　Ask lots of questions

　　In other words, behumble. If you come across as a know-it-all (even if you really do knowit all!)， it really pushes people away. Rather, asking lots and lots ofquestions (even dumb ones) makes people feel like you care, you can betrusted, and you are... humble.

　　Great posture

　　Have you ever seen apotentially very attractive person, but they have terrible posture?It's all ruined, isn't it? Or perhaps you have seen someone who perhapscould be quite ugly but they have great posture and so suddenly theyare really attractive? It's true. Your posture says a lot about you -it says whether you have confidence, or simply if you really care.Talking physically, it is one of the most important physicalcharacteristics you need!

　　Walk like you mean it

　　Walk with anattitude. Walk like you know where you're going, and do so with goodposture. Walk like you'll run over anyone who even attempts to hassleyou. If you walk like this, you'll be spotted from a mile away.

　　Stay busy

　　Do you really knowthe power of this? We're told to stay busy to ward off depression andfeelings of anxiety. But did you know you should also stay busy to bereally attractive? It's true. Always have something to do. Have youever seen someone just sitting around, doing nothing? How unattractive.Always be busy with something, even if for some reason you have to makesomething up.

　　Show your pearly whites (or just smile)

　　Smile more, nomatter how ugly your teeth are. I'm not kidding about this one. It'snot all about the teeth. If you are smiling genuinely, you can draweveryone for 100 meters around to you.

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